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 “Hi Sarah, please help, I'm 27 and I've never had an orgasm, where do I start? Thanks, Rachel.”
This is a question that a number of Sexgear.co.nz customers have asked over the years. So you are not alone if you have never experienced the Big O. Many normal and healthy women only experience orgasms while masturbating so before you concern yourself with having an orgasm with a partner, spend some time focussing on you. Now if that sentence made you feel a little uncomfortable then you probably need some assurance that masturbation is not any of the following: abnormal, dirty, perverted, selfish, silly or disgusting. In fact, tickling your own fancy is an excellent way to get in touch with your body and understand what stimulation arouses you. Simply put... it’s 100% normal and okay.
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 Winter has arrived and the weather has turned cold, so this month our ‘sexperts’ from Sexgear.co.nz are sharing their favourite sexy games with you – to heat up those cold winter nights ahead.
If you thought your days of playing spin the bottle or naked twister were over then think again! Sexy games are a fun and frisky way to expand your sexual repertoire. A good game will set your imagination running wild and bring out the animal in both you and your partner. Here are a few of our favourites…
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If you and your partner are struggling to find the time to steal a kiss, let alone indulge in a steamy sex session, then our sexperts from 
I’m sure you have probably heard about the infamous ‘pelvic floor exercises’ and the benefits of them. I have to admit it’s not something I’ve tried, so I decided to do some investigating. And as it turns out, by working on these muscles you can exercise your way to a better orgasm!
Whether you and your partner are separated by long distances, work different hours or just want to try something new, putting sexual excitement back into your relationship can be as simple as picking up the phone. Phone sex is a great way to intimately connect (pun intended) when the stresses and responsibilities of everyday life mean you can’t always be physically together. And what’s more, often you’ll find that you’re confident trying things over the phone that you you’re usually too nervous to attempt face-to-face.
Gloss girls know the importance of safe sex. All women need to make sure that their sexual health is a priority, and that means not sacrificing your safety for anyone! Condom use is essential, especially if you are not in a committed relationship. And remember, just because you are using a birth control method such as the contraceptive pill, you are not protected from sexually transmitted infections. So, when it comes to contraceptives, two is always better than one!
