In most cases, the most ‘well trained’ men got that way with a wife, and if they are still like that, there may still be a wife. Here are some tell tale signs that he's got a Mrs he’s not letting on about…
With more and more people taking advantage of online dating and having long distance relationships with men that are barely more than strangers all sorts of warning bells begin to go off. How do you know he is not married? If he lives at the other end of the country he could have a whole other life that you have no knowledge of.
What are some of the biggest signs that he is married?
You are never given a land line. That is, you are never given the number for his home phone. His reasons may be simple; perhaps the fact he is out of town lots on business or usually only answers his cell phone. The real reason is more that he doesn't want you phoning his house when his wife is home or worst yet, blowing his whole affair wide open to his wife and kids when you find out the truth.
It may feel your new man is the perfect catch, but if you’ve found a well trained man, he could be someone else's well trained man. He puts the toilet seat down and washes and cleans his own dishes. This is not common practice for a man who normally lives alone. After all, why would he be accustomed to ensuring the seat was down unless he had a wife who nagged him about it or plenty of single girls walking through his door? Either way, the alarm bells should be sounding, because he is either someone else's man or has plenty of women in that bed on a regular basis.
He is always ready to go. Sure men love sex and want it a lot. But the only time they want it now, every time they see you is they are either a high school kid (which should send you screaming) or they are looking for what they are missing at home. If his wife won't give into him, this is where you come in. He wants you now, because all he has is right now. This is especially true if all he wants is down and dirty, freaky sex.
His underwear is another clue. If all he ever wears is tighty whities, or plain old cotton boxers, chances are he is a taken man. His wife doesn't care what he has on, because they’ve moved past the rip your clothes off stage. And he doesn't care because he knows that. He may wish his underwear was the sexy kind he used to wear in his bachelor days, but he also knows if he were buying those all of a sudden his wife would be onto him, very quickly.
Cash is his method of payment. No credit, no debit, just cash. This woman has her man trained. She has access to all the accounts and is probably the one paying at least half the bills! She would be none to happy to see he bought something from Victoria's Secret and she never received it. If he is paying in cash, steer clear. Otherwise, there maybe a very angry wife to deal with.