It would often seem that men are from Mars and women really are from Venus... we have different ways of thinking and very different ways of communicating and negotiating the two can be an absolute minefield! One thing that is always a little easier to read than a man's mind is his body language and it can certainly be telling. We reveal some of the signs he's keen... and some of the signs that he's not too keen at all.
He's Keen!
He's checking you out. It sounds obvious, but if you notice him giving you the once over more than once, he is trying to catch your eye.
Walk like a man... When he's keen you can read his posture - if he is standing tall and proud with his shoulders back and chest puffed out, he is probably trying to emphasise his masculinity to you. Likewise if he is sauntering over to you with his man swagger he is trying to impress.
Stroke it... During conversation he caresses his glass by stroking his fingers up and down it. It's obviously a bit of a sensuous move and he's trying to show you he is gentle but seductive.
It's all in the eyes. If he is holding your gaze for just that little bit longer than necessary, then he is absolutely interested... And if his pupils are dilated - you've hooked him.
Lean on me. Well, he won't lean 'on' you, but if a man is keen he will lean his body towards you. This does several things - it shows you that he is interested, but it also shows other men (and your potential suitors) that he is into you. He may even lean his upper body near to you and 'screen' you off so that other men can't see you so well. But here's where it gets a little tricky. A man who is still interested in you may also lean back - what he may be trying to do is to emphasise his size and masculinity and to appear more powerful by sitting in a dominating position.
Try your luck with someone else...
Attention please! If he is not giving you his attention, this is a pretty sure-fire sign he's not into you. Is he distracted by everyone who walks in the room and is he constantly looking around? If he asks you a question but doesn't seem interested in the answer, he's probably not!
Hanging on the telephone... If he says he is going to call you and he doesn't, he's just not interested. Even if he was busy he could fire you a text or an email and it's not hard to make time for a quick coffee. It just proves you are not high on his priority list if he says he will do something simple like call you and then doesn't follow through.